The reality in marriagement

  As known to everyone, the marriagement is another cardinal thing besides the education and job. So we can obviously see how important when we choose a suitable partner for living.

  Which kind of person will more fitting for us? There was a varied of chooses. Just like Manuo said, she would like cry in the BMW car rather than smile on the bicycle. It is so exceeding, but it is a reduction of modern society.

  In the old times, our parents were all getting married for love, sometimes I asked my mother, why you married my father as you know he was so poor, my mother just smiled and said, because I love him.

  Such a pure love is not so common in the modern society, before we get married, we may add too many conditions like houses, cars and jobs to the marriage. We must admit that our love become more reality. But is it right?

   Different people have different opinions, someone considers that the substance is the essential things when we live in society,  we must get more money to support our life, when we have a baby, we should pay for the education, daily comsuption, and so on; but another kinds of people think that happiness is most significant thing of their life,  money is not equal to happiness.

   In my mind, I just think that the money is one of the methods to get happiness, but not the whole life,  if we have no love in our marriage, how can we accompany each other with patients, love and encourage? When you meet some diaster, your lover leave you away, how do you feel at that time.

  The marriage stands for love, encourge, diaster and reality,  the reality is last one, right?